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15 Habits You Need to Get Rid of For a Successful Life

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There are a lot of habits that are advised to be adapted if you want to succeed. It is equally important to get rid of the habits that will hinder your success a.k.a. bad habits.

The kind of habits you have, dictate the kind of life you live. The way you live your life has a huge effect on how you work, and it does not require a genius to figure out that how you work has a huge impact on your success.

Here are some of the habits that you need to get rid of, not only to work for your success but also to become a better version of yourself.

1. Checking Social Media first thing in the morning

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After waking up, many people check their phones. This then leads them to scroll through the feeds of multiple social media channels. Precious morning hours that could have been used to work on yourself or your work are wasted.

Make a rule to not look at your phone until and unless you have completed your morning chores. If you want, you can go through your phone while you have breakfast, that way you will take your time to finish the meal, instead of rushing and forgetting breakfast altogether.

2. Watching TV especially Reality Shows

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Watching TV is one of the most time-consuming forms of entertainment people engage in. One show leads to another and then another. Now we have Netflix that helps us fuel this addiction more by allowing us to binge watch complete shows.

While some shows can be helpful, reality shows aren’t. They are like junk food for our brain. We might enjoy seeing them, but they are going to have negative effects on us.

3. Not Reading Anything

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Reading is a great tool for anyone thinking of learning anything. Reading is one of the important hobbies to take on. Most successful people find time to read. They also advise reading at least one book every week.

If you think reading books is a difficult thing and you can’t commit to reading an entire book, then read magazines in your field. Read articles online; blogs have great reads to offer. Most articles can be read under 5-minutes. Start with small articles and then gradually increase the length of the text. Eventually, you will be able to read a book.

4. Multitasking

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Multitasking can be great but not many people are good at it. Your attention is divided among different tasks, not allowing you to finish even one. If you would really like to get things done, pick up a task, focus on it, get it done, and then move on to the next one.

When you are working in a browser, shut all the other tabs and use only the ones that are necessary for the task you are currently working on. All the clutter can overwhelm you, it is important not to lose focus.

5. Procrastination

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Procrastination has become one of those popular terms that people consider as sort of quirky and relatable. They don’t feel bad or take it seriously, but it is a real issue. Procrastination can delay your success. If you can’t stop putting off important work, then you might as well accept the fact that you aren’t going to achieve the heights you would like to.

You can’t not work for something and expect it to happen. To stop procrastinating, you need to get rid of all the distractions. While working, keep your phone farther from you, answer only important phone calls. I keep my phone always on “Do Not Disturb” mode and it has done wonders for my productivity.

Follow the 2-minute rule. If something can be done within 2 minutes, do it immediately. This stops tiny tasks from accumulating and also gives you a sense of accomplishment.

6. Not Budgeting

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Whether you have a job or run your own business, budgeting is really important. You can’t only live in the now with your money and have no safety net to fall back on.

“Don’t save what is left after spending; spend what is left after saving.”


-Warren Buffett

At the beginning of your career, it is easy to get lost in a spending spree because you earn now. But, take a step back. What if there was an emergency one day and you needed money. You won’t have any because you spent it all.

You don’t need to spend every penny, neither do you need to save every penny. If you don’t know how to do it, then the 50-30-20 rule is a good one to start with and follow. This rule tells you to put 50% of your after-tax income for necessities like bills, housing, food, etc. 20% goes to your financial goals, that is, saving. Finally, the remaining 30% can be spent on wants, like dining, entertainment, etc.

I would also advise to save and keep aside at least 6 months of living expenses so that if you lose your job or source of income, you will have enough cushion to fall back on.

7. Not Investing

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While saving is important, you can’t neglect investing. If you are following the 50-30-20 rule and saving 20% of your income, have you ever thought about what to do with the 20%. In today’s time keeping your money in the bank just doesn’t cut it. There are many investment options. Buying real estate, gold, stocks, bonds etc are just a few of the many ways to invest.

Let your money make more money for you. If you want to retire early or not slave away every day, then investing smartly can be of huge help. One of the best things to invest in is yourself. If you invest in learning and training, it pays huge dividends. It enables you to start a business which then allows you to make money even when you are sleeping.

8. Not Punctual

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Punctuality is one of the very important traits of people who get things done. Nobody likes tardiness. If you are not punctual, chances are, people are going to stop taking you seriously.

If you are always an hour or two late to every meeting, every deadline, then you are making a bad impression. People like working with people they can rely upon. Someone who misses every deadline and has no value to their word, is not the person people want to work with.

If you run your own business, this can have a very adverse effect because relations with clients can bring you more business. If the word about your unprofessionalism spreads then your business will take the hit.

9. Getting Too Comfortable

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Being too comfortable in the position you have is good but you need to always have some sort of ambition, to rise from your current position. Consider getting too comfortable with your situation as still water. Still water eventually gets stagnant.

It can stump your growth, stop you from reaching the heights of success. Which is why, it is important to always think about what next and then aim for it. It gives you a sense of purpose and the required push to go to the next step.

10. Complaining Too Much

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Nobody likes hanging out with negative people. Certain things piss everyone off, but if you spend a lot of time and energy gloating about things that upset you, you are going to push people away.

Quick sessions of complaining when everyone complains can be fun, knowing when to stop is the key. People lose interest in you and what you have to say if you keep complaining. No one likes surrounding themselves with negative people.

Stop spending time thinking about things you cannot change. If there is something you don’t like, then instead of complaining, there are two sensible ways to go about it. One- if you can’t change it, then stop thinking about it and go on with your work. Two- if you can change it, then work on changing it. In either case, there is no room for complaints.

11. Not Making Eye Contact and Poor Body Language

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Not making eye contact portrays a low level of confidence. When I was in college, there was a guy who didn’t make eye contact. The problem was that his line of sight was a person’s chest. It wasn’t an issue when he talked to guys but when he talked to girls it was a whole other scenario.

If you have a problem making and holding eye contact, then you can look at the person’s forehead or their nose, keep the height difference in mind. A short person looking at someone’s forehead is a very easy giveaway. Look just past their heads or ears, that way you are making eye contact with them through your peripheral vision while not getting uncomfortable yourself.

Slowly, you will find that you can now talk while maintaining eye contact. Same goes for body language. The way you hold yourself gives off the aura about the kind of person you are. This is why you are always advised to keep your back straight; it portrays confidence and authority.

12. Skipping Meals

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I know how easy it is to get lost in your work and skip meals. Breakfast is one of the most important meals of the day. Start by not missing your breakfast. You will start the day with the needed energy, and even if you have a late lunch, your body won’t suffer much. When you have a late lunch or skip lunch with no breakfast to support your body, you start feeling weak.

Recently, I was skipping too many meals because I was busy. It eventually caught up. My sugar level was low. I started blacking out, my whole body started feeling too light and tingly. I had to sit down and eat a few bites, drink something for it to subside.

Is it worth it? Is feeling like this just to get a lot of work done, worth it? No, it definitely isn’t. Making your health suffer in the name of being busy is one of the stupidest decisions you can make.

A healthy body is going to work more, so instead of burning yourself out, try keeping a pace that doesn’t affect you in the long run. Take care of your body, eat proper meals at proper times.

13. Not Exercising

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Like eating proper meals, exercising is essential. When your body is in good condition, you can work all you want. When it is not, you spend a lot of time and money to make it better.

Instead of letting it get to that, start exercising. Start with small changes in your routine. Go for a quick walk after lunch and dinner. Do yoga in the morning, meditate before going to bed or in the morning.

Start small and as you start getting comfortable with the routine, increase your pace. A sound body and a sound mind is the key to success.

14. Not Trying New Things

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Remember when we were kids, curiosity made us try so many different things. As we age, we stop trying new things. New experiences teach us a lot. They help us learn about ourselves. We find new hobbies, and we learn something that we wouldn’t have.

Learning new stuff challenges our minds. You might discover how much more you can do than you are doing right at this moment.

Curiosity is an important asset to learning. Never stop learning and never stop experiencing new things. In the end, our experiences are what make us.

15. Not Having Fun

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The way to get success isn’t working 24×7, it is finding the balance between work and self. Only working can tire your brain, burn out your mind, and put you in a rut. Getting out once in a while doesn’t mean that you are not serious about your future. It means you care enough to give yourself a break.

Let loose, go out for that drink you have been saying no to, go out for the movie you have been waiting to watch, catch up with your friends, spend time with your family. In short, have fun!

“All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy.”

-Proverb

The changes we make in our daily routines, our habits, have the power to change the narrative of our lives. They directly contribute to the outcome of the work we do. It is crucial to recognize the areas we need to work on and then find ways to make it right.

“The most important investment you make is in yourself.”


-Warren Buffett

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5 Reasons Why You Need to Start Journaling Immediately

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5 Reasons Why You Need to Start Journaling Immediately

Journaling and writing have been proven to be extremely beneficial to your mental health. It is relaxing and therapeutic. Some people use one journal to jot down everything, and some have different journals dedicated to different areas of their lives. There’s no one way to go about it. The only thing that matters is that you write your thoughts down.

It is a great way to reflect on your day, and these reflections later help you to reflect on your life. You learn a lot and realize what changes you need to make in order to lead a healthy and meaningful life, both mentally and physically. It also tells you how to go about your goals and what exactly is stopping you from achieving them.

There are so many ways to journal. You can follow the traditional pen and paper route. It helps many people feel more connected to their thoughts. If writing is not your thing or you are better with a keyboard, then make digital entries. You can type entries on your notes in your phone or start a blog to log in your daily life. Keeping it public or private, writing in a book or computer, journaling or bullet journaling, it’s all your choice really.
I mostly journal in Day One for Mac and iOS. It’s a wonderful app and worth every penny. Here is a snapshot of what my Day One looks like.

5 Reasons Why You Need to Start Journaling Immediately

Don’t beat yourself up if you don’t write daily. Write as much as you can and as many days as you can remember to. Slowly it will become a habit. Here are some reasons why journaling can be beneficial for you.

1. Journaling relieves stress

When you write things down, what you are essentially doing is transferring the information from your brain to a physical manifestation. This works the same as freeing up space in your memory card by transferring data to your computer. When there is free space, functioning becomes easier. May it be artificial intelligence or human intelligence, information overload can crash the system.

One of the reasons we feel stressed out is because there is a lot going on in our minds. With journaling, you get an opportunity to write down everything that is bothering you, everything that is distracting you, or anything that just doesn’t need to be taking up space right now. This way, you get to pour everything out and just breathe. This then allows you to look at what has been filling your mind in an objective manner.

2. Journaling helps achieve goals

You don’t have to have a clear idea of all that you want to achieve. Sometimes you don’t want to talk about your goals and dreams with anyone, and that is okay. By journaling, you can talk to yourself about them. Write down all that you want to achieve and why you want those things.

It doesn’t have to be specific, and you do not have to have a strategy. It might not even make sense currently. But, just pen it down. It later allows you to work on a plan to achieve those goals and work on the strategy based on what you have written. It is said that written goals are most likely to come true. This way, you put the idea out in the world, and it is not just a thought fragment in your mind.

3. Journaling helps reduce anxiety

When you want to achieve a lot or even when you are working on achieving them, it is easy to feel overwhelmed and agitated. Feeling anxious in your daily life becomes a routine. Every thought brings anxiety, and it doesn’t matter if it is the worry that accompanies the uncertainty of the future or a simple thing as what to wear.

When you start writing, it gives you an outlet to express yourself. It gives you a way to get rid of those thoughts. You put it on the paper and don’t allow those thoughts to fester in your mind and become bigger than they were and cause you anxiety.

4. Journaling helps you learn more about yourself

When you write every day, you are recording your daily life. When you go over it, it gives you an idea about how you react to a certain situation, what triggers your negative emotions. How you react to external stimuli is an interesting thing that you will find in your own words.

This helps you pinpoint what the problem is, it helps you learn and grow. It sort of gives you a third person’s view over yourself and your reactions to different things. The more you know and understand yourself, the easier it becomes to grow.

5. Journaling is a private escape

If you are someone who doesn’t like sharing your goals or feelings with other people, then this is the best thing you can do. It helps you pour everything out without the fear of being judged. People worry a lot about how people look at them or if what they are sharing will make people judge them, and this stops many from sharing.

Sharing is healthy. If not with others, do it with yourself. Journals are usually for your eyes only. Unless you allow someone to read your journal, they should not be able to. This gives you a safe haven to share your deepest thoughts and helps you and your mind relax.

5 Reasons Why You Need to Start Journaling Immediately

Journaling might not be everyone’s thing. You might believe that you aren’t good at writing. The main thing to remember is that you are doing this for yourself and not for others. It doesn’t matter if you are good at writing or not. You can literally write your thoughts down as bullet points, and it still counts. Give it a shot; you never know how it ends up being beneficial to you.

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5 Tips to Get Out of Bed Early in the Morning

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5 Tips to Get Out of Bed Early in the Morning

Getting up early is something that everyone aims at, but not everyone is able to do. I see so many posts about how waking up early can change your life and why it’s good for you in the long run, so I wrote one myself, “Why waking up early can help you achieve success.” In that article, I talked about why waking up early was important and what actually made it an integral aspect when it came to achieving success. I touched a bit on how to get up early in the end, but today, I am going to talk about it in detail. Let’s get ready to wake up early and take on the world.

1. Make small changes

“Nothing is so painful to the human mind as a great and sudden change.”

-Mary Shelley

Do not make drastic changes! This is where most people go wrong. If you have been waking up at 8 AM all your life, you can’t suddenly start waking up at 5. Your body needs time to adjust to a new schedule. Making drastic changes sets you up for failure even before you start. Taking small steps towards your goal is always a smart idea.

If your goal is to wake up at 5 am, then start by evaluating how early can you wake up without messing up your body clock. Start out by pushing the waking hour back by half an hour. Set up your alarm for 7:30 am instead of 8 am. Do this for a week or so and then gradually set it to 7 am and so on.

If even an hour is a big change, start with 15-minute increments. You have to slowly ease yourself into the new routine. Let your body clock sync with nature. Some people suggest going camping for a week without any electronics to let your body clock naturally sync with nature.

2. Sleep early

“It is a common experience that a problem difficult at night is resolved in the morning after the committee of sleep has worked on it.”

-John Steinbeck

Waking up early won’t make sense if you aren’t getting enough sleep. If you sleep at the same time and start waking up early, you are soon going to be tired enough to be sleepy all day. Saying waking up early isn’t doing anything for you would be a stupid thing in that case, isn’t it?

The goal here is to have a well-rested body. You need to get a full night’s sleep if you want to be productive when you wake up. Dragging a sleepy body through the day isn’t exactly a boss move we are trying to make here.

One of the things that prevent people from going to bed early is scrolling through social media. People get into bed on time but don’t go to sleep well into the night. FOMO (Fear of missing out) keeps many people awake. It is suggested to not use social media or any sort of screen before going to bed. You can instead spend some time planning for the next day and then directly go to bed. It will help you fall asleep quicker than if you use your phone just before bed.

3. Keep your alarm out of your reach

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Snoozing is instinctive in the beginning. Getting out of bed isn’t exactly an inviting prospect when you have been in the dreamland. This is why you need to keep the alarm out of your reach. Having to get up to shut the alarm down will wake you up quicker than if it was right next to you.

If you still go back to bed, then set 3-4 alarms at intervals of 10 minutes. How many times are you going to get up to turn the alarm off and then get back in bed? After a point, you are going to be frustrated. So, don’t overdo it because we don’t want to wake up with a foul mood.

Keep your alarm at a distance that needs you to walk at least 10 steps so that when you get up to shut the alarm, you might as well wake up instead of walking back to your bed.

4. Don’t go back to bed

5 Tips to Get Out of Bed Early in the Morning

This ties in with keeping your alarm far from you. If you don’t have that luxury, or your phone is your alarm that is always by your side, then you need to stop rationalizing shutting your eyes for 5 more minutes.

When we want to sleep more, we start giving ourselves reasons as to why it is okay to go back to sleep for a little while. This is what stops us from getting up at the time decided. 5 minutes become 10 then 10 becomes 15, and you are late just like that.

Do not listen to any reason that your brain tries to give you. Say NO! and get up immediately. You have to make a quick decision to get out of bed in the start, and then it just becomes routine for your mind.

5. Meditate before going to bed

5 Tips to Get Out of Bed Early in the Morning

If you have a really chaotic mind and find it difficult to fall asleep, then meditating is the way to go. Meditating for just 10 minutes before going to bed can be beneficial. Meditation helps you calm your mind and helps you breathe and relax.

When your mind is at ease, it is easier to fall asleep. I usually suggest meditating after getting up to start your day on a positive note. You can do it both the times to give yourself time to just breathe! Just breathing and not doing anything else is a solution to a lot of mental problems. Finding peace of mind is one of the things many people struggle with. Thus, meditating or doing simple breathing exercises before going to bed is advised.

“It is well to be up before daybreak, for such habits contribute to health, wealth, and wisdom”

-Aristotle

Waking up early is to help you be productive in your life and also start your day on a positive note. While you are on the path, stop for a few minutes and appreciate the serenity of the early morning. Take a moment to watch the sunrise or appreciate the silence of the dawn or listen to the birds’ chirp. Enjoy your coffee or tea or lemon water in the balcony or by your window. This helps you see the world in a positive light and helps you start your day right!

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5 Scientifically Proven Habits To Become Smarter

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5 Scientifically Proven Habits To Become Smarter

“Half of being smart is knowing what you are dumb about.”

-Solomon Short

By being a smart person, you can create more time in your schedule for the things that matter. This post gives you a whole new perspective on habits that you can incorporate to become a smarter and wiser person.  

There are a lot of skilled people out there, but they never get a chance to use their talents. This is because of the old negative thinking patterns that people carry which come in their way almost every time they try something new. If this sounds like you, read this article word for word.   

A lot of people think being smart means having more knowledge or being more resourceful. These things are important. But you also need to consider other things in your life that are weighing you down. Simply stated, being smart also means removing unnecessary habits and people from your life and replacing them with better ones.

Following are 5 scientifically proven habits to become smarter.

1. Meditate everyday

5 Scientifically Proven Habits To Become Smarter

Meditation is one of those self-development habits that everyone raves about. It has helped a lot of people become more relaxed and have a positive approach to life. But it also makes you smarter. Regular practice of meditation can change your brain chemistry and make you more rational and logical.

Meditation makes you smarter by increasing the production of grey matter in your brain. And this happens just after 8 weeks of doing it regularly. It basically increases the grey matter density in the areas responsible for making you smarter. Moreover, it also increases blood flow in anterior cingulate cortex and insula. These regions induce a positive mood and feelings of happiness.

So, there is plenty of research proving meditation to be instrumental in personal growth and development. It is one of the most important habits to become smarter.

There are many different types of meditation that can help you achieve your goal of becoming smarter and wiser. You can choose any one that suits you the best. All types have their own unique benefits. For instance, some people might find mindfulness meditation difficult to perform. It requires you to sit in one place without fidgeting or looking elsewhere. So, for them, other types like pranic breathing or transcendental meditation can be more fruitful.

2. Socialize

5 Scientifically Proven Habits To Become Smarter

Socializing can help you become a smart person. You don’t have to go to a high-end nightclub to meet people or approach random strangers on the street. Just having a few good friends who care for you is enough. Research suggests that social people are more likely to succeed in life. In this study, children who went to a mainstream school succeeded in life as opposed to who attended a school with fewer students.

You probably know that socializing helps with mental disorders like depression and anxiety. It makes you feel warm and less needy. But it also strengthens your memory. You become better at things like math, computer science, logic, etc.  This is why the popular kids at schools are also better at studies and other recreational activities like sports and arts.

If you are wondering how to make friends, if you don’t have any or if you are an introvert, don’t worry. There are plenty of introverts out there who are in the same situation as you are and are facing the same troubles. You can connect with people by sharing what bothers you and how you deal with your problems as an introvert. Or you could ask people about how they socialize and make friends. This can be a good conversation starter.

3. Read biographies

5 Scientifically Proven Habits To Become Smarter

Successful people love to read biographies of other successful people. They like to connect with and understand other people. It gives them insight into others’ life so they can learn vital lessons that they have to teach. Also, it inspires them to be more successful like them.

Reading a successful person’s biography allows you to get inside their head and look at the world the way they do. It is the only way you can deeply learn about someone’s life. You might never get a chance to meet them or spend quality time with them, so, why not read about what they have to say about their life.

Moreover, becoming smarter is not just being clever or making better decisions. It also means being more aware of yourself and others around you. You can only empathize with others when you will actually know how they are feeling or what they are going through. Reading biographies allow you to do that. And this is why it is one of the best habits to become smarter.

4. Physical exercise

5 Scientifically Proven Habits To Become Smarter

We all know that physical exercise burns body fat and makes you stronger and leaner. But can it make you smarter? Recent research by Cajal Institute, Madrid, Spain suggests that exercise can make you smarter, happier and increase the production of neurons in your brain. It is scientifically proven to make your mind strong and is definitely one of the best habits to become smarter.

Hippocampus is a major component of the brains in humans and other vertebrates that is responsible for reproducing neurons in the brain. The amount of physical exercise you do decides how much neurons are going to be produced. So, it directly influences the hippocampus. This is a very important point to keep in mind. It can inspire you to work harder in the gym.

Another study says that exercise increases the length of telomeres. Telomeres are the caps at the end of each strand of DNA. The length of a telomere is directly proportional to how long a person will live. Long telomeres also suggest how active the person is. People with short telomeres are found to be passive in nature.

5. Keep a journal

5 Scientifically Proven Habits To Become Smarter

“People who keep journals have life twice.”

-Jessamyn West

The basic idea behind keeping a journal is to jot down your thoughts without filtering them. A personal journal is not to be shared with anyone and is only meant to keep track of the activities in your life. Journaling makes you smarter if you do it consistently for a few months. Some people like to write only when they feel the need to do so, but a daily journaling habit arms you with vital insights into your life.  

Also, it’s difficult to retain everything that happens in your life. Both good and bad. By journaling every day, you can jot down everything systematically so that when needed you can just open the relevant page and find the required information.

Moreover, you also learn to express yourself freely. In a journal, you can write about things that you otherwise won’t talk about with anyone. This gets your thoughts streamlined, as you don’t give a second thought before writing anything. This habit gets translated into real life. As a result, you become bold and confident.

Like everything else, going from average to smart will take time as well. It’s a journey, not a destination. Also, it is very easy to complicate things after reading so many benefits and ways to become smarter. Keep in mind that successful people like Elon Musk or Warren Buffet believe in keeping things simple and easy. So, take your time and think about how you can incorporate these habits into your current life-structure.

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