The Science Behind Forming Habits that Last
If you’ve ever tried to form a habit, someone’s probably given you the advice that it takes only 21 days to do so.
The 21-day rule claims that one must only perform an activity every day, for 21 days, until it automatically becomes a habit and the person no longer has to put in the effort to do the activity.
And, if you’ve ever tried to test out this rule: you likely found that it doesn’t really work.
Unfortunately, there are many more factors that come into play when considering why some habit formation happens in less time than others.
I was told by a school teacher that it takes 21 days to form a habit and 90 days for it to become a lifestyle. During the lockdown, I tried to make it a practice to meditate every day for 10 minutes to meditate. I eagerly awaited the 21-day mark, expecting some kind of magical transformation to take place as soon as I awoke.
There was nothing different about the 21st day (or the 3 months after that), and I didn’t experience any time-bound results.
Where the 21-Day Rule Comes from
Interestingly, the 21-Day Rule isn’t so much a rule as it’s a misinterpreted observation. A plastic surgeon Maxwell Maltz wrote a well-acclaimed book about human behavior.
In his career, he noticed that it always took a minimum of 21 days for one of his patients to mentally adjust to the physical change in their body. He proposed that any sort of mental image adjustment requires a minimum of 21 days from this data.
Now while this could be useful data for mental image adjustments, habit formation encompasses many more factors than that.
Here are scientifically-backed factors that influence how strong your newly formed habit is and how long it will last.
How Big or Small it is
If your habit is something challenging to do, it will take a lot of willpower for you to drastically change your everyday routine to accommodate it.
For example, if you work a 10hour shift and still want to workout at the gym for an hour a day, knowing it sacrifices your recreation time: chances are that this habit will be really difficult to form and sustain.
A small habit like making your bed, washing the dishes before you go to bed at night, or even self-affirmations in the morning: are all habits that can fit into a schedule without you having to sacrifice much.
Starting with small habits makes it easier since you don’t need a lot of motivation to perform them.
How Important the Habit is to your Self Image
Some habits we’re trying to form are more important to us than others. If you strongly believe that this habit will help you become the person you’re destined to be, you’re going to attach more value to carrying it out every day!
How Many Days you Skip
We’re often under the impression that all your progress will come crashing down if you skip a day. Thankfully, it’s been proven that even if you miss a day, there are no long-term effects on the habit formation itself. But it’s recommended that you never skip more than one day at a time.
How You Remind Yourself
When reminding yourself to perform the activity you’re trying to convert to a habit, it’s critical to piggyback off other existing habits. That means if you already have a habit of doing yoga and want to get into a habit of meditating, make sure that you meditate right after your yoga practice. One habit helps the other.
How Sustainable Your Pace is
If you’re working on forming a habit that needs to be built up over time, you need to make sure this pace is feasible for your current lifestyle. You know your life best, and if you know you’re going to have a significant life event and get busier soon, don’t have unrealistic expectations from your new habit!
Good luck!
40% of our day-to-day life is made out of habits. Forming a new habit can very realistically transform your entire life. I’m glad you’re on this journey to maximize your potential, and I’m sure you can do it!
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