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Qualities of Humorous People that Give Huge Benefits in Life

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Qualities of Humorous People that Give Huge Benefits in Life

We have all heard the saying that, “Laughter is the best medicine.” In a lot of ways, it is true and learning how to laugh at slip-ups in your life is a great way of not letting things affect you with greater gravity. Learning to laugh at yourselves will help you through hard times. It becomes easier to deal with dire situations if you can make light of it. 

“Cancer is probably the unfunniest thing in the world, but I’m a comedian, and even cancer couldn’t stop me from seeing the humor in what I went through.”

-Gilda Radner

When you are a positive person, it becomes easier to find humor in situations, but then again there is dark humor too. Humor, as a quality, can make people very likable and they tend to have good chances at cultivating relationships as everyone is attracted to people they can laugh with.

Qualities Of Humorous People

Ever had a funny friend or co-worker who brightened up every occasion with their funny stories and anecdotes? If so, you would have wondered how they are the way they are. Let’s take a look at three common attributes of humorous people.

Joke About Themselves

The first thing that you will notice about humorous people is that they are capable of joking about themselves. They usually make fun of the things they do and make others laugh along with them. 

Qualities of Humorous People that Give Huge Benefits in Life

For example, they might share a funny incident that normal people will think twice of sharing because of how embarrassing it sounds. But they put it across in a nice, cheerful way that you cannot help but laugh. However, do not confuse them with low self-esteem people. Those who have low self-esteem might also make fun of themselves. 

“If you would not be laughed at, be the first to laugh at yourself.”

-Benjamin Franklin

But their jokes usually make people pity them. Instead, self-directed jokes of a humorous person will make him a star among the people around him. And this mostly has to do with the confidence and enthusiasm with which they deliver the jokes. Comic timing and delivery are something to wrap your head around if you plan on studying humor.

Diffuse a Tense Situation

Qualities of Humorous People that Give Huge Benefits in Life

People with a good sense of humor have a great ability to diffuse tense situations. No matter how heated the atmosphere becomes, whether at home or work, even if it involves them or not, funny people can easily infuse humor into the situation and bring everyone back to their senses.

Sometimes there is no point in arguing and to stop things from going south, humor proves to be most effective. It also gives you a way to point out something dicey in a manner that is less offensive, hence negating a chance of bitter confrontation.

People Magnet

Humorous people are known to be a magnet that attracts others around them. After all, who doesn’t like to be in the company of someone who can make you laugh all day? They will have a wide circle of friends.

Qualities of Humorous People that Give Huge Benefits in Life

This applies to family, friends and all sorts of relationships – from the neighborhood barber and the grocery guy to a potential love interest and clients.

And no matter where they go, to the office or a supermarket or even a police station, they are talented at making all types of people comfortable around them.

Humor And It’s Hearty Benefits

Now that we have talked about the qualities of humorous people, it is only natural to move onto the benefits of those qualities. How many times have you heard that networking is a great way to build your business? Do you not think that the ability to make people laugh, get them comfortable around you, and in general vibe with you helps? A quality that makes you a people magnet is always a plus. Here are some other benefits that affect them personally and makes their life better.

Health Benefits

Humor positively affects your health – both physically and psychologically. On the physical side of things, humor is said to relieve muscle tension. This effect is even more pronounced when a person has a hearty laugh. 

People suffering from spasms and neurological problems can ease their tensed muscles with a good dose of laughter in their lives. Humor also boosts your immune system. In fact, people have been found to have a better immune system after watching comedy videos. 

Yup, Jim Carrey can sometimes help you more than your doc. 

Immunoglobulin A, which protects your body from respiratory issues, has been observed to increase after watching humorous videos for about 30 minutes or an hour. On the Psychological front, humor is the best way to beat stress. 

“I have not seen anyone dying of laughter, but I know millions who are dying because they are not laughing.”

-Dr. Madan Kataria

Have a fun time with friends or watch a comedy whenever you feel stressed out, and your mind will immediately relax. Your stress levels will reduce and your nerves would have calmed down after a good laugh.

Relationship Benefits

If you want to make your relationships stronger and endearing, then humor is your secret weapon. Whether it is dealing with your spouse, children, or friends, humor will definitely give you an edge and make them feel more connected with you. 

Qualities of Humorous People that Give Huge Benefits in Life

For example, imagine that you and your girlfriend have a heated argument about something. Instead of indulging yourself in some ego play, try to bring humor into the situation and let the other person see the funny side of your conflict. 

All is forgiven over a good laugh. This can easily smooth out disagreements; avoiding chances that the argument might blow up into a disastrous breakup. 

In the same way, if your children misbehave, then don’t be angry at them. Instead, convey the message in a firm, but humorous way. Doing so is far likelier to get them to comply with your demands. If you had approached them angrily, then they might have rebelled against your authority. 

There will be such complicated emotional situations in all kinds of relationship throughout your life, right from childhood to old age. With humor, you can prevail over them without denting the relationships one bit.

Professional Benefits

Qualities of Humorous People that Give Huge Benefits in Life

Those who possess incredible humor can easily be popular at their jobs than those who idly sit by their desk all day. This is because everyone likes to be around a person with good humor sense. Who doesn’t mind a good laugh? In fact, if you are put in a position of responsibility, with employees under your management, then humor can become a potent tool to run the team.  

For example, if your team does something wrong, and you need to address it, then instead of coming off as completely unemotional and authoritative, try mixing in some humor along with the talk. This will lighten the mood while ensuring that your message gets across.

Final Thoughts

Humor is a great way to inculcate positive vibes in your life. If you don’t have the quick wits that you so admire, there are ways to learn to be more humorous. With practice, you can learn to be anything and do anything. Apart from you yourself delving in the genre, surround yourself with laughter too. Go to comedy shows, watch them online, read funny books, share funny anecdotes. Don’t be shy when laughing at yourself. When you learn not to be embarrassed about things, you feel liberated. Enjoy the feeling!

“And keep a sense of humor. It doesn’t mean you have to tell jokes. If you can’t think of anything else, when you’re my age, take off your clothes and walk in front of a mirror. I guarantee you’ll get a laugh.”

-Art Linkletter

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