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7 Powerful Traits Of Successful Leaders

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7 Powerful Traits Of Successful Leaders

Leaders are needed everywhere. They help the country grow by driving the economy, solving the social issue and by setting an example of greatness. Everyone can be a good leader. Unlike popular belief, leaders are not born with leadership traits. Their circumstances force them to take initiative and lead other people.

From big corporates to small business, everyone needs good leaders. Even if you are a self-employed person, you have to lead yourself. Leadership is also key in social situations. If you don’t lead people in your family or friends circle, you will be left behind and you won’t be able to get your ideas through.

Here are 7 powerful traits of successful leaders.

1. Strong communication skills

7 Powerful Traits Of Successful Leaders

Having strong verbal and nonverbal communication skills is one of the most important traits of successful leaders. Being able to express your ideas clearly is a quality that major organizations look for while hiring people in upper management positions. In today’s world, leadership is closely intertwined with management. A good leader should also be able to resolve conflicts between team members by using their conversation abilities.

A modern-day leader focuses on things like tonality, pitch, and resonance of your voice. Most people working in upper management jobs learn to speak with authority while on the job. But it takes them several years to perfect the skill. As a young employee or an entrepreneur, you should always be yourself without sounding like someone else. This will inspire people around you and also elicit the kind of responses you want from them.

2. Vision for the future

Leading with vision is the only way to inspire your team to work relentlessly until the completion of a project. Having a vision for the future is one of the traits of successful leaders. Sharing this vision with your team and making them realize it’s importance is what makes the team members stick to the task when things get difficult.

Most people only believe what they see. As a leader with a vision for the future, it is your job to make them visualize how things will look like once they achieve the common goal. A vision provides meaning and purpose to your life. The clearer your vision is, the lesser you have to work to make it a reality.

3. Good at building trust

A team without trust and belief in each other can never become successful. Good leaders know how to find people with the right mindset. Moreover, you can’t teach people to trust each other if they don’t like each other or don’t share common values. In fact, having a difference in opinion is the most common reason why there are so many disputes in team members today.   

To build trust and rapport with other people, always talk about things that interest them. Good leaders believe in asking questions and not boasting about themselves. By being genuinely interested in another person, you let them know that you admire and respect them. This will inspire them to respond with the same attitude. Being able to build trust is also one of the most powerful traits of successful people.

4. Good at team building

7 Powerful Traits Of Successful Leaders

Most people prefer to work in teams than by themselves. Being a part of a team makes you feel motivated and inspired all the time. Good leaders focus a lot on team building and consider it a vital part of their job. It’s always better to have a team of people who appreciate and like each other. This way they communicate better and understand each other well. Moreover, a close-knit and motivated team is more likely to have the focus and determination to solve difficult problems.

For a leader, it’s not a good idea to be the go-to guy every time there is a problem. The team can only become self-sustaining if there are enough problems solvers in it. These junior leaders can one day become good leaders only if they have an opportunity to exercise their talents and skills. So, providing equal opportunity to others is also a trait of a successful leader.

5. Self-motivated

I have never come across a person in a leadership position who sought motivation from other people. I understand that we all have our good days and bad days but to rely on others as a source of motivation is not a trait you want to develop. Self-motivation is one of the most powerful traits of successful leaders. It is their ability to draw inspiration from within themselves and not from an external source that leads them to greatness.

There is a dearth of self-motivated people on this planet. This is why there are so many people blaming others or their own circumstances for their failures. Self-motivated leaders take responsibility for their own lives. Reading books, taking part in social activities and having a life purpose are some of the best ways to stay self-motivated.

6. Emotionally stable

Emotional stability is the ability of a person to overcome stress and difficult situations without letting their own emotional state get affected by it. Being neurotic is the opposite of being emotionally stable. Neurotic leaders do get things done but are toxic to the team and the organization. The best way to recognize the presence of a neurotic leader is to observe how open-minded the team members are.

7. Persuasive and influential

Getting someone to do something you want them to do is persuasion. Persuasion can be used in both good and bad ways. For instance, a political leader who fights for a cause has to persuade people to vote for him so that he can use the position to solve people’s problems. Influence is a lot different than persuasion. The correct way to influence other people is by setting an example yourself.

Having both persuasion skills and being influential is among the most powerful traits of successful leaders. To learn more about persuasion and influence, read Dr. Robert Cialdini’s book Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion. In this book, the author explains the psychology of why people say “yes” and how to get them to do so.  

In conclusion

To understand these concepts better, it’s really important to implement them in your life. You can do it at a job, in your social circle or while fighting for a good cause. You can always lead and provide other people with a sense of direction in their life.

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Tips for Surviving Your Twenties

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Tips for Surviving Your Twenties

Your 20’s is supposed to be the time when you graduate your school, get introduced to the free wide world, get the freedom of doing what you want, the way you want, and when you want. The power struggle about making your own decisions is supposed to end, your parents can’t stop you anymore, well at least legally. You find love, start planning for vacations, go out drinking, have crazy experiences and so on. 

Sadly, a lot of you would have had a confused face halfway through reading this, not if you’re in your teenage if that is the case then stop worrying, I don’t want you to be depressed from now. Well, the reality is that the twenties are not all fun, to be honest, it’s riddled with hard work, coming of age battles and responsibilities. 

It’s always more difficult in the beginning. You have to get out of your comfort zone, start ‘acting’ like an adult, and when you see your first paycheck, all those arguments with your mum about not switching off your TV when you’re not watching start making more sense. 

Tips for Surviving Your Twenties

As much as a cliche it might sound like, working hard in your twenties does mean lesser problems in the future and finding financial stability in the thirties when you can’t burn the midnight oil as consistently as you can now. If you aren’t born with a silver spoon in your mouth, the reality is that you have to work hard to make a mark in the world and live a wealthy life. Considering this, it makes the most sense to work your hardest when you are comparatively younger with lesser responsibilities. 

How do you survive your twenties? There isn’t a cheat code for this, but some things that might help are what we are going to be talking about today. These are things that I have learned from my experience and things that everyone experiences at some point.

Stop Thinking Too Much

Tips for Surviving Your Twenties

Yes it’s hard, yes you have next to no free time, and yes you can’t see light at the end of the tunnel. When you are feeling low and want changes in your life, chances are you might research about, “what is the fastest way to earn money?”, believe me, we have all been there. 

The rabbit hole that we get into throws a lot of choices towards us and we are tempted to do a lot of stuff half-heartedly rather than doing one thing with all our heart. The trick is to not think too much in the future – have a plan, but don’t fixate on the deadlines too much. Allow yourself the time and freedom to test uncharted territories. When you stop thinking too much, you allow yourself to be more inviting of opportunities which would otherwise go past you.

Money is Temporary, Health is Permanent

Tips for Surviving Your Twenties

It’s such a common thing to do. When you are busy,  you stop caring about working out or eating healthy. Yes, you are completely engaged in your busy twenties, but it honestly doesn’t take as much time to make small changes for better health. 

When you are young, your body has better metabolism and responds to actions faster. Simply put, it is way more difficult to attain a healthy body and brain when you go past your twenties. Not only does a bad lifestyle cause bad health, but it also makes you less productive. Your body without proper care and food is simply not sharp enough to yield the results you are expecting. You don’t need to be busy to be productive is what you need to learn.

Monthly Budget with a Twist, Set Goals Before the Month 

Tips for Surviving Your Twenties

Don’t stop after creating a budget for the month. Start analysing your spending habits and categorise them with essential and luxury spendings. After this, you can set goals for the month to come. 

Having a budget does not mean you need to be a miser and give up on things that make you happy. A budget simply helps you be transparent with your spendings, it helps you be in control of your financial life

You Make Your Own Luck

Tips for Surviving Your Twenties

Luck is unsurprisingly one of the most overused words since it is easier to blame your environment and other people rather than doing self-reflection and taking criticisms. If you look at most successful people, they’ll never claim that they knew they were going to be industry giants neither will they claim that there exists some well-kept secret that is only known to the people who succeed. 

Successful people do simple things consistently and are not afraid to change and adapt if things are not going according to plans. You need to be hungry to grab any and all opportunities that are thrown at you. You are not owed an opportunity by the world, but if you get one, make sure you make the most of it because you never know when you’ll catch the attention of someone important who was once where you are. You make your own luck. You’re going to go through hardships anyway, make sure you make the most out of it.

Final Thoughts

Your twenties can feel daunting because you are thrown into a whole new world with very limited knowledge and expected to make the most of it. What you have to remember is that taking one day at a time is the best way to go about things when everything seems out of control. Taking a breather every now and then is the best way to grasp new concepts without getting overwhelmed by everything.

Tips for Surviving Your Twenties

While these are your crucial years, they are also the years when you have the chance to learn and grow. While you need to grow in your career, you also need to grow as a person. Don’t be afraid to take risks or just take some time out for yourself. 

Give priority to self-care. That is a concept that is widely under-estimated but holds a lot of power to keep you on your best. No matter how busy you are, take some time out for yourself and your loved ones.

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The Importance of Having a Purpose in Life

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The Importance of Having a Purpose in Life

“Having a purpose is the difference between making a living and making a life.”

-Tom Thiss

At one point or the other, you are sure to come across the term, ‘Life Purpose.’ You will hear people talking about what they think the purpose of their life is, or how they are still looking for the purpose of their life. This question is closely bound to existential crises that many people face from time to time.

Having a purpose in life isn’t always about the greater good, about some spiritual thing, or something bigger than you. It is more about yourself, your calling, something that pushes you to keep moving in the direction of what you desire the most. When we think of anything related to purpose, cause, and effect – Buddha’s teachings are one of the first things that come to mind.

Buddha’s teachings were based on the Law of Cause and Effect- the Theory of Karma. Buddha preached that every good action has positive effects on an individual’s life and every wrong thought, word or dead has negative consequences. 

Karma. What goes around comes back around. How many times have you heard this?

The Importance of Having a Purpose in Life

Each one of us has come into this world with a purpose is something that you will hear a lot – from people who have actually found it and from people who are pretending to fit it. You will get a lot of advice from all directions. 

We are all here to observe, to learn, to grow and then we return home. Every effect has a cause. Being human is an effect. So it must have a cause. Each life has a different cause. We all have different stories and different endings. But the ultimate purpose of each living being on this planet is happiness. We live to be happy. 

If you don’t think that, then close your eyes and think about what you truly want. Now, dissect it, think about having what you. Think about how it will make you feel. The underlying reason is satisfaction and happiness for everything. It might come in different forms, but at the end, it is the same.

“Good deeds bring good results. Bad deeds bring bad results. Your own actions bring your own results,” – this is what Karma basically entails. This is what leads you to find your purpose in life. When you know what you are chasing after, deciding the path becomes easier. 

You aren’t fishing in the dark with no destination in sight. Knowing what you have to achieve, knowing what your calling is even if it doesn’t fit the mould of the society – is enough to push you to keep moving. It is the encouragement you need to get out of bed every morning to achieve what you want.

“I believe purpose is something for which one is responsible; it’s not just divinely assigned.”

-Michael J. Fox

The Importance of Having a Purpose in Life

We are always blaming everyone else for our mistakes and failure. But all these are excuses to hide our own deeds. All of our fate at this moment has been brought on by what we have worked for. It is our own actions not those of others at all times. When one door opens, it doesn’t stop there, it opens multiple others. Every action causes a chain reaction – domino effect if you may.

If we don’t have a person to blame our fate, we blame our bad luck. We say misfortune stuck us down. But the truth is our current situation is a direct or indirect effect of our past actions. We are affected by our own causes, and no one else’s. Our actions and our intentions. We may try to camouflage his intentions in his otherwise noble deeds, but at some point, all this leads back to us. 

“If you organize your life around your passion, you can turn your passion into your story and then turn your story into something bigger―something that matters.”

-Blake Mycoskie

Sometimes you are stuck in miserable situations and wonder if the universe is conspiring to bring you down. There are two ways to go about it – either you sit and complain about it for the rest of your life or you accept your circumstances and work hard to change your conditions. 

Live your life to the fullest, but take responsibility for your actions. Improve your lifestyle. Have healthy habits. Developing your self is the first step to learning your purpose in life and doing it justice. People who know how to use time wisely will make it their aim to spend time on activities that help them advance on their purpose in life, and people who know what the purpose is will know not to waste time chasing things that don’t matter.

“There is no greater gift you can give or receive than to honor your calling. It’s why you were born. And how you become most truly alive.”

-Oprah Winfrey

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Why Chasing Your Dreams is a Scary Concept and Why You Need to Do it Anyway

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Why Chasing Your Dreams is a Scary Concept and Why You Need to Do it Anyway

A few years ago, a steady 9-to-5 job used to be the dream. We were all taught to aim for that, to have a goal to get a good job that can provide you with financial stability. You pursued education with the end goal of getting a job. Took personal loans, studied hard, worked while you studied to get by, got a job, kept working to pay the debt off, then continued working on getting yourself by – maybe get a car, a house – this was all we knew.

Starting your own business was risky, few people attempted it. It took a lot more commitment than just working for someone else. All of us heard this phrase – “Build your own dreams, or else someone else will hire you to build theirs” – it hit us at times, but we didn’t dare to chase our dreams because we had responsibilities and also debts to pay off.

Why Chasing Your Dreams is a Scary Concept and Why You Need to Do it Anyway

So many people stayed in their jobs telling themselves that they will soon start out with their own venture, they just needed to pay their debt off and save some money as a financial cushion for themselves. But, the problem here is that once you get used to getting a stable paycheck, it becomes difficult to get on a road that is full of uncertainty and doesn’t even guarantee that you are going to get a paycheck in the initial few months.

Bill Gates, the wealthiest man in the world, was a college drop, who has about a million engineers working under him. Stories like his, people like him, are thrown around as examples a lot. What people often don’t see behind all the success is that success doesn’t come easy. You don’t achieve your goals just because you were lucky. 

You either have a goal for yourself, or it is someone else’s plan you’ll be a part of. If you don’t work on building your dream, then it is evident that someone will hire you to build theirs, and that is the reality – that is how the world works. Many people who have dreams other than their jobs, try to convince themselves that this is not the case, but this is precisely what is happening. Inaction will get you nowhere even if you have a bucket full of luck showered over you.

Why Chasing Your Dreams is a Scary Concept and Why You Need to Do it Anyway

You need to have a vision, and you need to have goals to turn your vision into reality. There is no point wearing yourself out in a 9-to-5 job, even if it pays you well enough if you are not happy. You need to find a job which inspires you, helps you grow. You need to focus on something that will add value to your life and vision. There is nothing wrong with helping other people to live their dream – there is a difference in willingly helping someone with their goals – but it should never be at the expense of your own vision.

We may be interested in a lot of things, and we may even do it according to our convenience. But commitment is what is required to pull ourselves out of the comfort zone. The struggle of getting out of the comfort zone is what tangles many people, and you have to detangle yourself, learn to fight the feeling, and do things anyway.

Now is the best time to start; it is as good as any. Leaving behind your unfulfilling life might seem like a distant dream, but it is on you to make it happen. To live the life of abundance, you need to start from the beginning – start from a dream. Before any idea can come true, it must first be imagined – the seed needs to be planted. 

Why Chasing Your Dreams is a Scary Concept and Why You Need to Do it Anyway

Take time to dream. Think about your goals. Consider how your skills can help you and what you are talented in, explore your thoughts. The thinking should go on till you get obsessed with it because liking what you do isn’t enough. Obsession is the main driving force that will make you get up and run toward your goal – that is the fuel that drives people who dare start a venture.

People who have achieved laurels in different fields – regardless of all the obstacles – irrespective of their injuries, disabilities, low-income conditions, marriage bonds, or conservative families issues – become examples to people who dare to walk a path different from others. This is your life. You and only you get to decide what you want to do with it; you can’t rely on someone else for your happiness – this is something that more people are starting to realize.

When you learn that you can’t blame someone else for your failures; you can’t hide behind people as a reason for your inaction – change starts to happen. Society will tell you all kinds of things, force you into decisions, but it’s YOU in the end who makes the decision. 

If you have a dream – a dream that excites you, scares you, makes you feel giddy, makes you feel alive – then you have a mission in life. Your mission is to make that dream come true. But if you are letting a bunch of excuses come in your way, you are sabotaging your dream. The only thing standing between you and your dream is ironically YOU.

“There is only one thing that makes a dream impossible to achieve: the fear of failure.”

– Paulo Coelho

With the start of every new endeavour, there are many obstacles that you have to cross on the way. People are going to shun you, mock you, criticize you for many of your decisions because there is a cultural norm of following the same societal rules and it baffles people when you think outside the box. 

Society has always tried to make everyone fit into this one homogeneous frame. Those who manage to be like everyone else are appreciated – which is why we pretend. But sometimes, most times, people don’t fit in, they just can’t fit in no matter how much they try.

Why Chasing Your Dreams is a Scary Concept and Why You Need to Do it Anyway

People are scared, they don’t know any different, so they will scoff at your ideas, they will tell you it is not worth it, but you have to trust yourself and not be fooled by these judgemental people who try to make you doubt yourself. They might not always be coming from a wrong place, it might be out of concern, but taking risks is not something everyone can wrap their heads around.

People who decide to do something different from others are looked down upon. People, who feel the need to judge and criticize others, have one thing in common: in order to feel better about themselves, they need to knock others that aren’t like them down. They see you doing what they wish they dared to do – something to get out of a life they don’t want to be living. So they will attack you in every possible way until you feel miserable about the path you are walking on, about the need to do something for yourself. 

“Every great dream begins with a dreamer. Always remember, you have within you the strength, the patience, and the passion to reach for the stars to change the world.”

– Harriet Tubman

You have to stand firm. Don’t let anyone convince you that you aren’t capable enough to achieve success, to make your dreams come true. Believe that everything is possible, however impossible it may seem initially. The magic ingredient here is you believing in yourself when everyone refuses to believe you. The universe is continuously testing you to see if you are really serious about pursuing your dreams. Being stubborn, not quitting, and moving forward is what is needed to go after what you want.

“Don’t let small brains convince you that your dreams are too big.”

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